*Ex-mates are dangerous to your heath and relationship
Do you have a ex-girl or ex-boyfriend that constantly calls your home and cellular phones?
Well welcome to the club, from my experience and information from other ex-mates can be a dangerous ingredient in the disintegration of your current relationship.
There are cases where the 'ex' act has if their phone calls to you is a mere harmless one, it first take on that nature with questions like :"How are you? How is work?, Is your mother doing ok?", stuffs like that. Then eventually, it moves from the phone calls, to wanting to meet you at a set location, then the home environment is discussed, and before you know it the same ex is actually making passes at you, and demanding you back into their life.
Whenever, you kind of figure out that the ex-mates main motive for calling you was to persuade you to be with them, they sometimes deny it, and the calls still keep coming in.
This is definitely not good for your emotional health, as the emotions and tensions rises as your spouse becomes suspicious or even irate with these calls from your ex.
Some of these exes, have not gotten over you, and can be quite aggressive and even stalk you.
So remember be careful of those exes.